I see my friends, my colleagues, and, in hindsight, I see myself miss out on awesome opportunities all of the time. God opens doors wide open for us, and we walk past it. Meanwhile, our hearts are empty and we desire a closer relationship with God.
The reason we miss these doors are numerous. We can hear ourselves often say, “I didn’t want to do it, because my heart wasn’t in it.” -or- “I would feel like a fake, it wouldn’t be genuine.”
These excuses could be used for a wide variety of things : Not wanting to sing hymns, or refusing contemporary worship; Not signing up for a service project or praying for an individual; Not sharing the gospel with a stranger; Not forgiving a trespasser; Not going to Church or Sunday School. Because, “I’m not feeling it, it wouldn’t be genuine.”
In our culture, we give our hearts too much control of our actions. This often leads us to more heart-ache, which is probably what we are trying to avoid. We need to lead with our minds, and let our hearts follow.
What if we did our Spouse’s chores when we didn’t feel like it? What if we chose joy when it would be easier to wallow in our sadness? What if we offered forgiveness before a grudge set in? What if we sang praise to God even if we didn’t “feel” the music?
I can hear those excuses surfacing back up again in me already… But that’s not genuine, that’s fake, I need to be real. Yes, we do. But we also need to understand that the heart makes some bad decisions. I can attest to that! My heart has chosen some lousy relationships to follow, and has led me to insecurity and bitterness in the past. This has taught me that the heart is a much better follower than it is a leader.
You can choose, and your heart will follow. Soon your heart and mind will work in tandem, spurring each other on towards the goal. When I let my mind lead, in time my heart will catch up and swell at the enormity of God’s grace. It will overflow at the opportunity that was seized. Then my heart begins to crave more. More good decisions, More love, More service, More grace, More God…. MORE GOD.
Let’s be a little more like Isaiah:
Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?’
And I said, ‘Here am I. Send me!’
Have you ever done something when your heart wasn’t in it? What did you learn? Did your mind lead your heart closer to God?